She won't go to the hospital and she really need to go help?

hospital help a.s.a.p?
hi my Freind who is 15, was messing about today on a balinster thats like a beam and she fell and landed on her vagina she was screaming in pain, and she started to bleed a lot. she couldnt even walk . me and her boyfreid carried her and layed her down on the bed to try and carm her down but she was in to much pain screaming , we took her jeans off her we could see loadz of blood on her under wear and every where . he went to pull her underwear down to see wa the matter and she started screaming even more she wouldnt even let her boyfreind have a look i ased him have he ever had sex wid her and he said no she will not let him go near her vagina wat could b wronge?? its been a few hours since then and she still will not let us have a look we have given her some pain killers and they havnt worked that much we got her to carm down a bit she is still crying and cant wak should we take her its for her own good ??

its been a few hours since then and she is still in pain she is starting to be sick , and the bleeding is not as bad as it was but still a lil bit of blood. we tryed to carry her out of the hsopital but she started to scream and was in tears i know its not nice and shes in loaz of pain but why docnt she want to go she is terrifed of them i have never seen any 1 like this before i dont know what to do please help x


and mine and her parents have gone away for a month and ive treid calling them but can get hold of them and she is not close to any orther adults or anything

don't try to move her yourself...one reason she may be screaming is because it hurts her to move...and you carrying her may actually hurt her more....if she has cracked part of her pelvis she may be almost delerious with pain...believe me...I've had this kind of injury...she doesn't know what is good for her...she would be unable to know what she needs...so you have to take things into your own hands now and call an ambulance for her...they can stabilize her enough for transport..and get her to a hospital without causing her any more pain than necessary....if it turns out to be a minor injury great! But if she has a pelvic injury....she is in grave danger....so be a friend and take the situation into control and do what is best for her...honest she doesn't know what she needs....YOU DO!

Call 911?
Seriously. They'll be a better help & will probably end up forcing her.

She needs to go to the ER.

call the ambulance or somethin
she needs to go to the hospital!!!! no matter wat u have 2 do 2 get her there!!

tell her parents i am pretty sure they will take her to a dr

Call 911...they will help....

Why won't she go to the hospital?

Could be a symphysis pubis injury.

Sounds like she needs to go if shes in that much pain.

Call 911. She can refuse to go but if they come and see what's happened it might change things. Your friend needs help so call them. If you can't take her at least you can get other people to help you and help her.

call 911 and have the paramedics come to you and do not tell her they can handle when they are there good luck!

Take her.
like now.
even if she is scared its for her.
so drag her out of the house even if you have to.

call an ambulance

really. I hardly go to the dr, either but she needs help NOW. She probably cracked some bones as well as the bleeding.
Call an ambulance and keep us posted!

so she went to the hospital? thats good what did the doc say? so you should really try to calm her down but she may not be able to have babys and be scarred btu she'll be ok

Persuade her to go to the hospital to get it checked out immediately. She may need stitches and leaving it untreated could result in an infection.

She might have broker her hymen. But to be safe I would call ask a nurse. Or call your local hospital ER. They will talk to you about it.

www.askanurse.com

Its a free service where nurses answer your questions.

Be calm and try to take her to emergency. Tell her it's for her own good. They are very understanding. When you get there, you go inside and ask for help, either a gurney or wheelchair. And tell them she is bleeding.

Pick her up, put her in the car and take her! Something could really be wrong and she needs help. If she starts screaming again saying she won't go then call 911 and tell them to send someone over. She won't even have to know until they pull in, but get the girl help now!

If she's bleeding that bad just call emergency services. She needs medical attention...!! just call. She could be mad at you later when she's allright..

Get her an icepack. For the pain to stop she needs some pain pills, like Tylenol or Aleve, but not aspirin, as she is bleeding. Her hymen probably broke. That will account for the bleeding. Call the ER & see if she needs to be taken in or not.

What about calling the Doctor, emergency Doctor or nurse. I think you should just call an ambulance now.

If your living in the UK call NHS Direct on 0845 4647 for nurse advice and health information. The helpline is open 24 hours.

Call 911!!!
I know she doesn't want to go to the hospital, but you HAVE to make her. It's for her own good, something could be seriously wrong, and she could lose too much blood.
If you can't drive call 911 immediatley. Ask a neighbor to take you, I know it will be embarrassing, but that is really serious.

call the ambulance or call the doctors she might need x-rays.

r u a girl since maybe she is uncomfortable with her bf in the room ... have him step out and talk with her , theres not much u can do but find out why she is bleeding and progress from there.

You need to contact her parents and tell them, you also need to phone an ambulance now. She may have internal damage which could make her infertile in the future. She mayalso have cracked her pelvis. This is extremely dangerous situation that she is in and you need to call an ambulance NOW

Take no notice of your friend and call an ambulance right now,

When she is better she will thank you for it. GET HELP RIGHT NOW.

iF THIS WAS MY daughter I would be so grateful to friends who took care of her. Good luck.

drag her to the e.r if u have to!!! she can have like massive blood loss & die!!!!!!! im sorry but this story doesnt sound very believable lol... no offense or anything of course cuz thats just my opinion... it might just be bad luck that your parents r away and everything. if she doesnt wanna go still take her! its really serious

didnt u ask this like yesterday?

And based on your other question posted in this very section, your mother's dead, and you have no relationship with your dad and your little sister who lives with you has lower abdominal pain and smelly discharge and she needs help but refuses to get medical attention right?

Get off the pc and go play with your barbie doll!

DRAG HER THERE NO MATTER WHAT CALL 911 KNOW man i feel soo bad for her :(:(:(

999.

Call the paramedics.
She probably broke her hymen but she would not bleed that
much.
Please - its no good trying to 'look' at her - what can you do?
It is good that she has caring friends, but please get her to
hospital. Good Luck. Minxy.

Sweetheart if you in the UK dial 999 and ask for an ambulance as you friend appears to have damaged her self and it needs expert medical attention, don't delay just do it